Diverse Relationship Styles: Working with Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy in All its Forms – Other Loves 1
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This training may be taken on its own or as part of a 5-day series leading to a: Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships, more info can be found here: Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships
Dates : Tuesday 6th April 2027
Times: 12pm – 6pm (GMT – UK time) with a 45 minute break for lunch and 2 other short breaks. Please log on for 11.45am for prompt 12pm start.
Trainer : Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, scroll down to see more about the trainer
Location : Online
Cost : £110 if booked by 6th February 2027,
£125 if booked by 6th March 2027,
£140 full price
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Please note, that the general rules of engagement of the profession (confidentiality etc) apply when attending this workshop.
This seminar may be taken on its own or as part of a 5-day series leading to a: Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships
Diverse Relationship Styles: Working with Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy in All its Forms – Other Loves 1
In the beginning, having more than one partner was the norm. Having multiple partners increased the likelihood that you would have healthy children, made it easier to get all the tasks of living completed, and made it easier to raise a family. Matrilineal societies were often polyamorous as all wealth passed from mother to child and the mother of a child was obvious.
When wealth began to be transferred down the male line, monogamy became the norm so as to make it easier to be clear about the male parent. Many monotheistic religions mandated monogamy once this change was made in order to make it easier to enforce.
In the west it may seem that most societies are monogamous, but in fact most are non-monogamous. The advent of paternity testing has meant that many in western cultures are now choosing consensual non-monogamous relationships.
Considerable research demonstrates that therapist bias can negatively effect outcomes in therapy. Lack of knowledge increases the likelihood that we will create harm with vulnerable and/or underserved clients.
By the end of this course, you will have:
- Clear definitions of monogamy, non-monogamy, polyamory and the myriad other relationship styles.
- Identified your own biases relating to relationship styles and challenged them.
- A clear framework for asking excellent questions about relationship styles
- Learned the language you need to work with clients whose relationships are non-normative
- Learned how to differentiate between consensual non-monogamy and cheating
- Learned the pros and cons of non-normative relationships and how to work affirmatively with clients who choose these relationships
- Learned where accurate resources can be found for working in depth with this population – particularly the most recent research and statistics
In the past this workshop has been known as Other Loves Part 1
Trainer : Dr Lori Beth Bisley 
Lori Beth Bisley is a Advanced GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist whose expertise lies in working
with individuals, couples, and groups to explore their sexuality, gender and relationship styles, discover a deeper level of sexual congruence, heal from past
trauma, as well as create more meaningful, pleasurable, exciting, and authentic intimate relationships. She specialises in Kink and in consensual non-monogamy.
On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on
Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4 – Series 1 and 2). She was the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®. She’s also a
passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma.
Dr Lori Beth Bisbey has been working with people since 1987 to help them resolve
trauma and PTSD, and create and maintain superb relationships that contain sizzling
sex and without the shame. She grew up in the US, and emigrated to the United
Kingdom in 1990.
She is author of the chapter Examining Therapist Bias When Working With Kink
which is in the book Erotically Queer: A Pink Therapy Guide for Practitioners Edited
By Silva Neves and Dominic Davies.
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FEEDBACK FROM COURSE ATTENDEES:
This training may be taken on its own or as part of a 5-day series leading to a: Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships, more info can be found here: Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships
Who should attend : This course is open to all counsellors, psychotherapists, psychosexual therapists, coaches and health workers who wish to deepen their thinking and understanding of kink.
Maximum Number : 30
APPROVED FOR CPD : This course has been accredited by NCIP- National Council Of Integrative Psychotherapists. A Certificate of Attendance form for Continuous Professional Development for 5 hours will be sent by email once you have filled in the feedback form.
OUR EXPECTATION : Is that you will attend this workshop for the full length of the course, have your video on, your mobile off, and fully participate.
There are some online talks on zoom that allow you to come and go, or to choose not to participate in the exercise and breakout rooms. This culture has started to creep into our workshops. We have even had people say they want to leave to go and pick up children from school or walk their dog! People dropping in and out is very disruptive – especially when there may be group exercises that are planned for the same group to participate in a number of times.
Because of this, we want to be clear about our expectations. This workshop has been planned with the assumption that you, and everyone else, will attend for the full time. If you book on this workshop we expect you to: be there for the whole workshop, participate in the breakout rooms, and have your video switched on. Please also put your mobile to one side and on silent, only checking your phone during breaks.
SOMETHING WE ALL NEED TO BEAR IN MIND
When powerful feelings are revealed and processed, it is not unusual that our own psychological issues are triggered and flow into the mix. Wilfred Bion is a respected name in the world of group working. He wrote extensively and cogently on issues that invariably occur in groups. We would like to agree basic guidelines with you – based on his findings – to ensure the success of our work together. Bion’s central focus was the disruption (he called it ‘resistance’) that may arise within a group that shifts it away from its agreed task. Our focus, our agreed task for this workshop is NOT therapy for the members or to criticise others.
Our agreed task is to offer teaching and learning related to diversity within contemporary relationships.
To this end, our Certificate in Diversity within Contemporary Relationships welcomes and needs people to be courageous, and examine prejudice with tolerance and a minimum of defensiveness. We need our workshops to be safe spaces, where participants can be vulnerable and supported if they make mistakes, as we all do. We would like to remind you that we work within UK law and ethics (Gender Recognition, Equalities Act, MOU and Race) and will not tolerate non-compliance in any way. We wholeheartedly support people courageously stepping forward, and anyone who is critical of this will not be welcome on this training and may be asked to leave.
CANCELLATIONS : Any request to change (e.g. defer to alternative dates) or cancel your place at a workshop, that is made at less than 21 days before the course start date will be charged in full. Any cancellation / amendments / requests to defer before 21 days, will be subject to a 12.5% handling charge.
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